When I was younger it was easier to get over any kind of relationship when I was angry. That meant moving on quickly and not looking back. But now I think I’ve reached the point in my life where I would stop and try my hardest to put myself in the other’s shoes to try to understand where they were coming from. It’s not easy, but hopefully it’s a start. And these 2 words (thanks to yesterday’s homily at mass) can be a new mantra whenever I get angry.
I hope it works.